Mera sabhi Gujjar ladke or ladkiyo se nivedan hai ki or kisi b caste or cultulral me shaadi kr k Gujjar Samaj me apne Mata-Pita or apne Khandan ka naam kharab na kre kyonki parivar ka naam Banane me bhot time lgta hai or Gavane mein sirf 1 koi b chotti si Galti hi kafi hai ...!
A Bagdavad Gurjar
Ravi bhai its a very good issue and i hope joiner give u a good reply
ReplyDeleteDeepak Baisla(Bhagot)
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ReplyDeleteare aapne to y kuch anokhi baat batayi h hum logo ko to y sab pahle s pta hi nahi tha..............
ha ha ha ha
Bhupinder Nagar
Save Gurjar Pride & Purity of blood
ReplyDeleteBhupinder ji,. Antarjaatiye vivah rakshash ki tarah humari bhen or betio ko din per din apne or aakarshit karke khata jaa raha han or hum hath per hath dhare hue bethe hue han... .......Apne Gurjar samaaj ke samman ki Raksha karne ke liye meri uper kahin hui panktiya ek chota sa paryas han ..or aap puch rahe han ke isme anokha kiya han ......Nischay hi aisa partit hota han ke aaap Gaon mein rehte han ..jahan abhi bhi Humari Bhai or Bhene mariyadao ka Anusaran kar apne samaaj ko Goravvanvit kar rahe han .... ... baahar aakar dekho apko pata lage ga ki ke humari community ke kuch aise log jo apne aapko apne Gurjar samaaj ,apne culture or sabhyata ki mariyadao se uper samajhte han wo in riti rewajo ki awhelna karke doosri community mein shaadi karne ke liye lalayit ho rahe han ....or aise log isme ache vikalpo ko talash kar khud apne,apne parivaar ,Apne Gurjar samaaj, ka khoon karne ke liye aatur ho rahe han...
Jai Gurjar Jai Bharat
Ravi Kasana
gurjar hone se pahle hum ek inshan h mere bhai, sabko apni zindagi apne vicharo se zeene ka pura haq h, is life m sabse jaruri h khush rahna aur dusro ko khusiyon dana kisi ka bura mat karo chahe wo gurjar ho ya koi anya sabko bhagwan n hi banaya h
ReplyDeleteaur apne samaj k liye kuch karna h to dowry k liye karo gurjars ko shikshit banao,kuch aeisa karo jisse gurjar samaj ka naam uppar uthe.....
Bhupinder Nagar
Mr. Bhupinder
ReplyDeleteDost mein Aapki Baato se bilkul wajib hoon ki hume apne cast mein Dahej, Ashiksha jaisi kuch kuritiya han jinka hame jad se mitana han or han iske liye humari community ke mahanpurush han jinhone inn buraiyo ko khatam karne ka bida uthaya hua han.jinme se Parmukh han mr Jitender Nagar ji .jo ki Science Postgraduate han or Delhi University mein Karyarat han ,jo anti dowry Mahapanchayt ka ayojan karate rehte han .special of this panchayat is that jo bhi iska member banta han wo yeh kasam khata han ke wo apne bacho ki shadi bina dahej ke karega.....abhi last year they had conducted 4 such panchayats in Bambawar,Dujana,Sadalpur & jaoli in noida & more such panchayats have been lined for this year.( for more Info See Times of India ,dated 6-may-2010 on its page no.5)..Or Rahi Baat Education ki to Bro Gurjar Mahasabha ,Patparganj ke sahyog se Bhopara Border per Gurjar Shiksha Samiti ke liye Bhawan Nirman kiya Gaya han jisme Gurjar Biradari ke Garib or ashay logo ke liye Graduation tak ki Muft Shiksha ka parbhand kiya gaya han sath hi yahan per aap free mein Humare Gurjar Bhai or Bhene medical Treatment bhi le sakte han...so bro humara samaaj Shiksha ki or agrasar han or sath hi dahej Partha ko bhi samapt karne ka paryas jaari han....
Bhupinder ji aap intercast marriage ki favouring ki baate kar rahe han to kiya hume apne parents ki marzi or samaaj ki Pratishtha ke khilaaf khada hona chahiye...theek han hum modern han per apne tradition ko bhi nahi bhulna chahiya ..bro HUM GURJAR SAMAAJ SE HAN GURJAR SAMAAJ HUMSE NAHI HAN....BHUPINDER BE CLEAR THIS THING KE MEIN YAHAN KISI KO DARANE YA DHAMKANE KE LIYE NAHI HOON....JO SAMAAJ KE FAVOUR KI BAAT HAN WO MENE YAHAN RAKHIN HAN.....OR HAN AGAR KISI KO APNE SAMAAJ KA NAMO NISHAN ISS DHARTI SE MITANA HAN TO USE KOI BHI NAHI ROK SAKTA HAN ....
Ravi Kasana
Mr. Bhupinder
ReplyDeleteDost mein Aapki Baato se bilkul wajib hoon ki hume apne cast mein Dahej, Ashiksha jaisi kuch kuritiya han jinka hame jad se mitana han or han iske liye humari community ke mahanpurush han jinhone inn buraiyo ko khatam karne ka bida uthaya hua han.jinme se Parmukh han mr Jitender Nagar ji .jo ki Science Postgraduate han or Delhi University mein Karyarat han ,jo anti dowry Mahapanchayt ka ayojan karate rehte han .special of this panchayat is that jo bhi iska member banta han wo yeh kasam khata han ke wo apne bacho ki shadi bina dahej ke karega.....abhi last year they had conducted 4 such panchayats in Bambawar,Dujana,Sadalpur & jaoli in noida & more such panchayats have been lined for this year.( for more Info See Times of India ,dated 6-may-2010 on its page no.5)..Or Rahi Baat Education ki to Bro Gurjar Mahasabha ,Patparganj ke sahyog se Bhopara Border per Gurjar Shiksha Samiti ke liye Bhawan Nirman kiya Gaya han jisme Gurjar Biradari ke Garib or ashay logo ke liye Graduation tak ki Muft Shiksha ka parbhand kiya gaya han sath hi yahan per aap free mein Humare Gurjar Bhai or Bhene medical Treatment bhi le sakte han...so bro humara samaaj Shiksha ki or agrasar han or sath hi dahej Partha ko bhi samapt karne ka paryas jaari han....
Ravi Kasana
Bhupinder ji aap intercast marriage ki favouring ki baate kar rahe han to kiya hume apne parents ki marzi or samaaj ki Pratishtha ke khilaaf khada hona chahiye...theek han hum modern han per apne tradition ko bhi nahi bhulna chahiya ..bro HUM GURJAR SAMAAJ SE HAN GURJAR SAMAAJ HUMSE NAHI HAN....BHUPINDER BE CLEAR THIS THING KE MEIN YAHAN KISI KO DARANE YA DHAMKANE KE LIYE NAHI HOON....JO SAMAAJ KE FAVOUR KI BAAT HAN WO MENE YAHAN RAKHIN HAN.....OR HAN AGAR KISI KO APNE SAMAAJ KA NAMO NISHAN ISS DHARTI SE MITANA HAN TO USE KOI BHI NAHI ROK SAKTA HAN ....
ReplyDeleteBhupinder Abhi 10th september ko humne Mihir bhoj jayanti ka ayojan karaya tha Gurjar Bhawan patparganj mein...wahan jane mane Pratishthit log Shamil the ..Jinme Shri Ramsharan Bhati(ex director agriculture deptt) ,Jile singh (Director-horticultur).,Mukhiya Gurjar, Nepal Singh kasana ji.,, Roop Chand nagar ji , jaise ganmanya vyakti shabha ki shobhagaar the jinhone intercast marriage ki badhte prachalan or dush prabhav ke baare mein avkalan karaya tha...Shayad aap wahan maujud hote..to apko pata lagta ke humari cast kitni royal han .....but dont worry mein shigra hi uska vedio upload kar apko send karta han only then u wil relaised ke wt the consequences having in intercast marriages ....
And the comment that u hav mark on me- ke khali dimaag shitaan ka hota han so for ur info i will make this clear that i am a Graduate mechanical engineer with a management degree in hand & currently doing job as a system Engineer in "Knorr-Bremse India Ltd. which is a German mnc ...............& its my Calibaeration that being the busyiest Man I am taking out the time for the upliftment & welfare of my community....
Ravi Kasana
Huuunnnhhhh ?
ReplyDeleteKya Bakwass hai
And who the devil you think you are ? Lord Krishna or Lord Ram to lecture us .
O'Hello,
Hmari mrji hm kuch bhi kren or jab hmare parents ko koi problem nhi to who you are to preach us. Apne views bhai apne pass hi rkkho.
vese bhi intercaste mei problem kya hai ?
Mere khayal se intercaste is good.
Atlease intercaste marriage mei everyone have better options.
Nupur
Save Your Pride & Purity of a Blood
ReplyDeleteWhat a girl i appreciate u nupur the way u criticize some one...thts great......the girls like u take this info into the Bakwaas ..& my Dear friend Nupur ...aap ho kiya jo aap ko samjhane ke liye Bhagwaan Shri Ram ji Or Krishan Ji Dharti per avtarit ho........Jo aap Logo ko karna han wo to aap karoge hi no one can stop u so its worth to talk to a girl who have such perception thts hampers & spoil the honour of a community & their Parents in a society...
Nupur ji , By having ur indulgence in Intercast marrriage dont u ppl think ke aaap apne Gurjar samaaj ka naamo nishan iss dharti se mita rahe ho.....thn why u ppl suffix or prefix Gurjar or ur surname with ur name.....u dont hav right to fix any thing that symbolises ur attachment with Gurjars..but still u r in Gurjar girl community..thats not suit ur persona & non gurjars hav no right to join any Gurjar comm but still u r here in this community ......why such double standard madam.....
miss nupur abhi aap bachi ho or aajkal ke modern fashion se covered up ho to aapko intercast mein option hi option nazar aayenge...kiya gujaro mein ladko ko kami han ..har feild mein aagey han hm...but its been a matter of regret that ppl like u r making our community weak by indulging in such meanless activity.......
or miss Nupur rahi intercast marriage mein problem ki to iske drawback ko to aap jaise ladkiya ko samjhana lohe ke chane chabane ke barabar han aap ise shaadi ke baad hi samajh sakti han........so dont wait just grab this golden opportunity......kahin aisa na ho kahin hath se nikal jaye..
Regards
Ravi Kasana
well mr.kasana as u hv ur opinion..others hv thier perception or opinion just respect that......................................aap aapni soch dusro par kyoun thopte ho
ReplyDeleteLakshita
well miss Lakshita what u do if some one treat ur feeling the way Nupur Did to me by saying my right preach to be a "Bakwaas" ... i hav said nothing wrong to anyone just a slight of "Tit For Tat" for nupur ....
ReplyDeleteRAVI KASANA
:) m really surprised that people still believe in cast so much, funny part is the "naam kharab, if u marry sumone from other caste" I can only laugh... in which world u r living man...
ReplyDeleteAmi Gurjar
miss ami its not ur fault its the country where u r living responsoble for the said above thoughts.......dear by indulging urself in intercast marriage u ppl just dimnishing the gurjar community from this world ...u dont believe in cast system but still miss ami u hav suffix gurjar with ur name why such double standard madam....wah re kalyug kiyz kehne tere aaj ki nayi or modern generation ko apne riti revajo or parampao se kuch lena dena nahi han...agar sanskarik insaan foreign country mein non sankarik ban jaata han to mein kabhi bhi bahar nahi jaunga.. western ppl r adopting indian culture and indians r more divert towards western ..julia roberts is one of the example of such trait...friends take lession from julia roberts..
ReplyDeletemiss ami i m leaving in that world or in tht community where lord rama and lord krishna taken birth who had obeys his parents wish and accepted to went 14years in exile madam not in that country where values itself have no value...
Ravi Kasana
for ur kind information, i am not born in this country, and read carefully my comments above, i do believe in caste thats why i use gurjar suffix but it doesn't mean that i support murderers. and u said by intercaste marriages gurjars will diminsh from this world, look at punjabi community, famous for love marriages, even British knows who punjabis are, whole world knows. your mentality is limited to your village. where u can count on fingers number of educated people. but when u talk to people outside ur village or state, you should learn to respect other's thought process. before community i believe in my country, I am Indian first. and that triple murder shocked people when they learnt that people are still involved in honour killings, it is this mentality that never change and my country is still a devleoping country, because educated people are involved in caste more, if you beleive in caste that much, why don't you start something more meaningful, try to tell people in our community how important education is. i wish i cud type more but don't have that much time...
ReplyDeleteAmi Gurjar
man mein vicharon ka uthna swabhavik hai.
ReplyDeletelanguage and expression un vicharon ko vyakt karne ka madhyam hote hain
buddhi ka kaam vicharon ko niyantran me rakhna aur ye sunishchit karna hota hai ki koi baat kahan or kis tarah se bolni hai
normal insaan or pagalon me firk sirf itna hota hai ki paagal man mein uthne vaali sabhi baaton ko bolta jaata hai, usme kasoor uska nahi hota, woh ye samajhta hai ki yehi sach hai, theek hai or yehi ultimate hai isiliye woh paagal kehlaata hai
koi bhi aadmi chahe kitna hi intelligent ho,righteous ho ......apne vichar kisi par thopne ka haq nahi rakhta...............kucch logon ki mentality itni perversive hoti hai ki unki sahi baat ke liye bhi revolting reaction hota hai.........................aese logon ki har baat par react karna ek aur stupidity hai........................
ignore and move on.....
Nirmal Dedha
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ReplyDeletei think mr kasana ke saath koi problm hai................
ReplyDeletewo shanti se nahi reh sakte...........
unhe maatha maarne ke liye kuch naa kuch chahiye.....
abhi honour killing waali behas khatam ho gai to unkaa mann nahi bhara.... to ab ek aur conflictng topic post kar diya..............
arey bhai tumhe bata diya pehle bhi ki bhai hume tumhaaree advic nahi chahiye......tum apne sujhaav apne paas hi rakho....\
Misha Gurjar
@Ami-Ami ji, we are not Punjabis & are not suppose to adapt their culture what so ever they have…we hav our own unique culture that is rich & prosperous in all ways…that’s of coz we r called Royal .Ami ,yes I am proud that being from city I hav maintained all values & sanskaars that I hav got from my ancestors & I loved to be called a villager..miss ami be it clear that I am not limited with in my village..i too have many friends who are in india & in abroad & doing their best in their respected fields & holding a respectful position as well but still they are die hardcore fan of their Gurjar Community & their traditions. Even they are outside from their country but still remain in a limit that comes with in their communities boundaries…..& I too have the respect for other ‘s thoughts but only if they goes according to the norms & rituals that’s been setup by our ancestors.
ReplyDelete& I will always stand against such ppl who hurts the dignity of my honourable community what so ever he or she is………………
@Nirmal ji, I have great respect for you but sorry to say the way you cross my words is not fair way to express the views ..u just directly attack on the respect & dignity of mine .If you want to oppose me then why don’t you put such words that’s confront me directly …..Madam Nirmal ,I wud just say that you are not enough to confront me that’s why u using such disgusting words for me….& it shows that truth & rightly said thing never bows & always win the battle..so don’t commit such mistakes…
Madam Nirmal ji, jis tarah se aapne apne krodh or apni kathni vyakt karne ke chestha ki han wo sampurnteh anitipurna or bedhangi han….iss tarah se mein bhi apne man mein uthne wale bhavo ko vyakt kar sakta tha kintu yeh mere sanskaar ke viprit han ..so aagey se aapse nivedan or prarthna han ke bhavishya mein aise aniti purn shabdo ka paryog na kara kare….
Ravi KAsana
@Misha ji, mein matha nahi maar raha hun Balki Bheso ke saamne Bin baja raha hun jiska koi bhi or kasa bhi benefit nahin hota nazar aa raha han….but after all mein Gujjar hoon or yeh har uss Gujjar ka dayitv han ke wo apni community ke kuch bhatke hue numaendo ko sahi raste per laaye or wo hi mein karne ki chestha kar rahan hoon..so aap log apna kaam kare or mujhe apna kaam karne de…
ReplyDeleteMisha, let it clear ke its not a conflicting topic it’s a reforming topic where I am trying to reform the laid perception that u ppl have ….yeh ek meri taraf se chota sa paryas han ..shayad bhagwaan meri prarthna sunn le or meri community ko or uske bhatke hue logo ko iss intercast naam ke evil se bacha sake …or meri aap logo se vinti han ke do prayer for me ke jo bhi mene socha han apni community ke or iske logo ke bare mein wo pura ho jaaye …taaaki meri yeh Royal Gurjar communitydimnishing hone se bach sake…….or Gurjar community Hamesha ki tarah Royal or Dignityfull Bani Rahe
So in end my request to all my opposer & follower of intercast marriage plz change your perception regarding the intercast marriage nahi to “Ghode Ghass khate rahenge or Gadhe Chawanprash..”
Jai Gurjar Jai Bharat
Ravi KAsana
mr kasana mujhe samjh main nhi aata ki aap punjabis ke peeche kyoun pade ho........................................unhone kya bigad diya aapka.........................yahan koi kisi ko support ya appose nahi kar raha hai.................................................bus mujhe yeh samjh nahi aata ki aap itne kattarwadi kyoun hai.............................sab ka aapna point of view hai..............sab ki aapni soch hai ............................................to aap itna bharsak pryas kyoun kar rhe hai logo ki soch badalne ka............................nd plz mind ur words before posting anything against any girl............................kyounki agar aap bhagwan ram ke follower hai toh girls ki respect kijiye ........................................nd on a funny note aap lord krishna ke follower hai ............par unki soch toh aapse bilkul alag thi ........wo to pyar ki murt the.........................i mean aajtak radha krishan ka naam amar hai our aapko pata hi hoga ki radha ji gujjar thi our lord krishna yadav .........................intercast........ chahe unki shadi unse na hui ho ..................................i myself dont support intercast marriage bt i also dont appose it ............so just chill .........................................u sounds like r.s.s v.h.p parties president............smtimes raj thakre also......................................kuch samjhana hi hai toh aapna point view rakho par ouro se yeh expect mat karo ki wo bina soche samjhe aapki baat man le .............................................................................................................nd one advice fr u i think u should join politics ......................may be u would be good at there ...............wahan par aapki speeches bahut chamak jayengi..............................
ReplyDeleteLakshita
@Lakshita ji, I am not against any punjabi..mein surf unke uss culture ke khilaaf hoon jo Bharat ki Shabhyata ko Sarvnash kar raha han....or aaj ki Humari Gurjar Yuva Peedhi unhi ka margdarshan kar rahi han..tabhi yeh intercast marriage n all like this happpening in our cast too...& miss Lakshita ji be clear this thing i had never used any words that dishonour the respect of any girl here...
ReplyDeletemiss lakshita ji,Bhagwaan Krishan ji Sarvgunn Sampann the Isiliye unhone apne avtaar mein sirf kalyug mein hone wale sarvnash ke peechey ke karno ko Ginwaya tha so that we shud take lession from them..nothing more than that...Lakshita ji Yadavo mein to Shri Krishan ji ka lalan Poshan hua tha Janme to wo Gurjar kul mein hi the to fir wo Yaduvanshi kase ho gaye.....Mujhe Jaankar Acha Laga ke apko itna to pata han Radha ji Gurjari thi jo ki Gurjariya ke naam se bhi jaani jaati han....Per apko agar itna pata han to apko Bhagwaan Krishan ji ke baare mein bhi pata hona chahiye ke wo bhi Gurjar Kul mein Janme the..Wo Naagar Gotra se the..waise bhi unka ek naam "Girdhar Naagar" han thats reflects their belonging with us or iska mere pass ek proof bhi han.....
The King of Gurjara Kingdom during Mahabharata was Sri Krisna.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gurjara_Kingdom
And if anybody has any confusion about sri krisna's gujjar origin then read it here, where Shishupal before getting killed by Krisna addressing him as Gujjar.
http://www.searchgurbani.com/main.php?bo....ypage&page=1103
4th para
http://www.searchgurbani.com/main.php?bo....ypage&page=1104
Lakshita ji click these links apki saari duvidhaye door ho jaayengi
Apart from that : Bhagwaan shri Ram ne bhi Gurjar kul mein hi janam liya han...for ur inctance: Unke Putra :Luv or Kush the..Kush se Kushana 's or kasana generate hue or Luv se leva Gurjar jo ki Humare late shri Vallabhbhai Patel ji the....like that........
Ravi Kasana
Wanna Refresh your mind ke hum itne mahan han ke hindi filmo mein bhi humara cast ke baare mein kahin na kahin naam aa hi jaata han:
ReplyDelete1. The famous director Dheerubhai Desai made a film on gujjars "Veer Gurjar" in 1932.
2. The famous movie Kranti was made on Gujjars of Landhora Riyasat.
3. The latest hit movie Hulchal casting Akshay khanna, Karina kapoor, Jackie sharoff, paresh rawal, Amrish puri and many other top actors is actually based on the lifestyle of Gujjars of wetsren UP. there is a song in the movie (I think its the very first song)..where Akshay Teases Karina while singing "gaon se aayi re gujariya.)
4. there are countless songs over gujari's beauty:
5. Harivansh Rai Bachchan Himself Write his poetry On Beauty of Gurjars in his poetry"Maile Mein Kho Gayi Gujjariya" that was sung by mr Amitabh Bachchan Himself ....
A. Sonu Nigam's Masum: in this song the singer sings purely in Gujjari language "konho ku ja ri e ri Gujariya." and Gujariya Gujariya ...
B. Dilip Kumar's Nain Lad gaye hain toh manva ma kasak huibe kari starts with the line "nain lad gaye ek goriya Gujariya se"
C. A very famous album song "Jara dheere chalo" also has a line "main bholi bhali gujariya.
and the listy goes on...
So its not like Gujjars have no presence in movies and Indian cinema....they are everywhere....
There is also a song in Shah Rukh Khan's film CHALTE CHALTE WHOSE SONG IS " PREM NAGRIA KE TUM BHI DAGRIA CHALO HUM TAU CHALAY SUNG TUM BHI GUJJARIA CHALO".Singer Manaday's song is also very famouse "JHANAK JHANAK TAURI BAJAY PAYALIA ..........CHALAT TU AISAY JAISAY BARINDA BAN KI KOYI GUJJARIA".First hit film Gujjar song was of PERMIT WAS"YAR THE KHATIR PAIS WATAYA MAIN GUJJRI BAN GAYE WAY GUJJARA TERE RANG WHICH RANG GAYE"means Gujjar
Ravi Kasana
An english film of actor Van DAM's film hard target was named AMERICAN GUJJAR in Alfalah cinema on Mall Road,Lahore.So many times cinema owners changes the name on sign boards.Film ATHRA GUJJAR is also a example in which director named the non Gujjar as ATHRA GUJJAR and put Gujjar word only one time in whole film.
ReplyDeletePakistan there is also a very famouse song"WAY GUJJARA WAY
I hear gurjariya word in ragni "chali re gurjariya"by satpal dousa for gurjari women of rajsthan
Manoj Kumar ji ki ek Film mein jiska naam "Bhai-Bhai tha- where he used a dailogue to Prem Chopra -Tum bhi kiya yaad karoge kisi Gujjar se pala padha han...More of like that..
so friend apni gurjar cast ki importance ko pehchano ke Hum kitne mahhan han ke hazaro saal tak humne Duniya per Raaj kiya han...even many other community ppl came across to me who are great fond of our community but its a matter of regret ke humari community ke log iska naamo nishan mitane per lage hue han...so friends Lets hands together to made our community feel proud on us by not crossing its limits.....
Jai Gurjar Jai Bharat
Ravi Kasana
esa meine toh kahi nahi suna......problem is not that ki ku karti hai intercast marriage ....prob is this ki ku nahi kar sakti... intercast marriage
ReplyDeleteRoli Mavi
the question is y they want? kyun karna chahti hai other caste me mrg?
ReplyDeletejai Chokkar
the problem is that our community has big communication gap and lack of unity. there are lots of Good and highely qualified people in our community but they are not so social.
ReplyDeleteanother reason is lack of education. so that's why girls r sometimes choose to go outside our community.
Hitesh Singh
ab jo kar rahi hai.........ya karna chahti hai......i just wanna say..........east or west gujjar is the best.
ReplyDeleteMeenakshi Nagar
yaa U r right...
ReplyDeleteThats why me Gurjari se hi bihya rachaunga.......
chahe jo kuch ho jae.....
Hitesh Singh
news paper bhi read karte hai n news bhi sunte hai.....ashok vihar case mein love marriage thi n dear hitesh love caste dekhkar nahi hota......luv mein conditions apply nahi hoti...
ReplyDeleteor aap gujri se issliye shaadi karoge bcz apke pass koi or option nahi hai........ or kya yr ek lyf mili hai, usmein bhi lyf partner choose karne ka haq nahi
Roli Mavi
Ooo g kue nahi hain haq.. life partner dhundne ka...
ReplyDeletehamare gujron me achhe ladkion ki kame hain kya... Bohot se well educated and smart hain.. apne to apne hi hote hain na... or rahi bat love ki to apne biradri me LOVE nahi ho sakta kya???
mere pas or koi option kue nahi hain g bohot hain g....
ut the thing is that I dont want to go outside my cast.. And in our cast achhi ladkion ki kame hain kya... ek se bhad ke ek hain. Our gurger girls are Beauty with brains...
Hitesh Singh
hiteash ji.
ReplyDelete..im just thinking practically wht u r saying ......
agar apko koi ladki pasan ati h to ap sabse phle jake ye puchoge ki ..."madam do u belong to gujjar cast then only i love warna ramram""???hahahahahah
Mansha chd.
OK OK .... then what is ur point ... wether intercast marrige is good... tell ur parents that do whatever u want im going to d intercast ..... this thing is good... hurting them is good...
ReplyDeleteyaar I understand that we r highly educated.. but how can we justify intercaast marrige..????... how explain....
explain me....
Ager mujhe mohobat ho jatihain to me parents se kya bolunga... Unki repo a kya hoga... Ok we will become Happy.. ma livewith our partner happy life.. but can ur parents live whose roots r in village.. NO mam no...
how many families u have seen in our comunity who have done intercast... tell me . I have pratical live example... Tell me .... explain me....
Hitesh Singh
Well lagta hai abhi bhi kuch ladkiya apni community ko acchi tarha nahi janti
ReplyDeleteMr hitesh ka kehn sahi hai or baat rahi Ms roli lagta hai aap love marriage karengi
ek baar shadi karne se pehlay apne daddy or bhaiyo se consult jarur kar lena
MR Hitesh Mansha ko lagta hai ki jisse pyar ho usi se shadi hoti hai ye bhul hai Ms mansha puchta koi nahi hai ki aap gujjar ho ya other caste par ek baar try karna ki hammay or other caste ke ladko mai kya different hai kuch dino mai apne aap samjh mai aa jayega
Deepak Baisla
Well lagta hai abhi bhi kuch ladkiya apni community ko acchi tarha nahi janti
ReplyDeleteMr hitesh ka kehn sahi hai or baat rahi Ms roli lagta hai aap love marriage karengi
ek baar shadi karne se pehlay apne daddy or bhaiyo se consult jarur kar lena
MR Hitesh Mansha ko lagta hai ki jisse pyar ho usi se shadi hoti hai ye bhul hai Ms mansha puchta koi nahi hai ki aap gujjar ho ya other caste par ek baar try karna ki hammay or other caste ke ladko mai kya different hai kuch dino mai apne aap samjh mai aa jayega
Deepak Baisla
Well lagta hai abhi bhi kuch ladkiya apni community ko acchi tarha nahi janti
ReplyDeleteMr hitesh ka kehn sahi hai or baat rahi Ms roli lagta hai aap love marriage karengi
ek baar shadi karne se pehlay apne daddy or bhaiyo se consult jarur kar lena
MR Hitesh Mansha ko lagta hai ki jisse pyar ho usi se shadi hoti hai ye bhul hai Ms mansha puchta koi nahi hai ki aap gujjar ho ya other caste par ek baar try karna ki hammay or other caste ke ladko mai kya different hai kuch dino mai apne aap samjh mai aa jayega
Depak Baisla
mansha g and roli g.. explain me what is your point...
ReplyDeleteya i understand ur feelings that u r living in free nation. u have fundamentel right to live.. you can do whatever u want..
But merrige is different thing.. It is bonding of not only two individuals but two families... tell me m i wrong???
haan pyar kerna gunah nahi hain but tell me jab hum intercast shadi ker hi nahi sakte to pyar ka kya matlab....
me un logon me se nahi hun jo kabhi es ladki se pyar kare phir doosri se phir teji se etc etc... that is not true love.... me to kewal ek se hi pyar karunga... jo ki meri wife hogi.. unconditional LOVE. chahe wo kare ya na... But me to karunga...
ese love ka kya phayada jis se parets family society me tenshion aa jae... tell me... mam we can't do any thing..
Hitesh Singh
deepak yaar u r right.. jin logon ki gawo se lagaw hain jameen hain local hain biadri me uthna bethna hain wo log biradri se alag kese j a sakte hain... Or please en logon ko samjhao ki apni nahi to apne parents ka to khyal karo please please..
ReplyDeleteplease intercast mat karo. please... Parents ko dukh mat pohochana. please.. always give respect to them and always give to femails.. that is my moto of LIFE
hame apni grass roots ka pata hona chahie na... hum kahan se hain kese aae.. tume pata hain ki hamare porwaj kaun the.. wo the Hurns.. jo ki bohot hi jada brave the... pore europe me raj kia tha en logo ne... pata hain ... hum raja bhoj ke wanshaj hain...
Shivaji bhi gurjer the.. pata hain kya....
apna pakistani cricketer shoeb akhter bhi gurjer hain..
Hitesh Singh
brother hitesh ye girls nahi samajhti ki inhay kya pata ki apni caste mai bhi ladko ki kami nahi hai jo unsay bhi achay bhi qualified hai jin ladko ko hamari gujjri pasan d karti hai
ReplyDeleteAGAR INHAY SHADI KARNI HAI TO INKO MERI TARAF SE YE SUGGESTION HAI KI EK BAAR SHAADI KARNE SE PEHLAY APNE BHAIYO KO JARUR PUCH LENA OR APNE DADDY KO MAT BHULNA
Deepak Baisla
My vote goes against the inter-caste marriage...
ReplyDeleteSave your breed buddies....
Parihara Inborn
ab ladke achhe honge to ladkiyan unhi se shadi karengi ... gurjar hona itself hi qualification nahi hai ..agar "gurjar r the best " hum kehte hain to hame prove bhi karna chahiye ...
ReplyDeletei think there is a bit of catch in question ....jab ladkiyaan community ke bahar shadi karti hain to , i think, each of us starts thinking ki comm. mein acche ladke nahi hai kya ....and baat thode ego pe aa jati hai .... so inspite of killing sisters for marrying outside community ....khud ko itna able banao ki ladkiyaan comm. mein hi shadi kare ...
aur ye baat to kehne ki hai hi nahi ki koi comm. mein shadi kyu nahi kare ....jiski marzi hai wo wahan shadi kare ..waise bhi >95% log to i think humari comm. ke apni comm. mein hi shadi karte hai ..kafi hai ..comm ke tradition preserve karne ke liye
Hitesh Gurjar
ab ladke achhe honge to ladkiyan unhi se shadi karengi ... gurjar hona itself hi qualification nahi hai ..agar "gurjar r the best " hum kehte hain to hame prove bhi karna chahiye ...
ReplyDeletei think there is a bit of catch in question ....jab ladkiyaan community ke bahar shadi karti hain to , i think, each of us starts thinking ki comm. mein acche ladke nahi hai kya ....and baat thode ego pe aa jati hai .... so inspite of killing sisters for marrying outside community ....khud ko itna able banao ki ladkiyaan comm. mein hi shadi kare ...
aur ye baat to kehne ki hai hi nahi ki koi comm. mein shadi kyu nahi kare ....jiski marzi hai wo wahan shadi kare ..waise bhi >95% log to i think humari comm. ke apni comm. mein hi shadi karte hai ..kafi hai ..comm ke tradition preserve karne ke liye
Hitesh Gurjar
ab ladke achhe honge to ladkiyan unhi se shadi karengi ... gurjar hona itself hi qualification nahi hai ..agar "gurjar r the best " hum kehte hain to hame prove bhi karna chahiye ...
ReplyDeletei think there is a bit of catch in question ....jab ladkiyaan community ke bahar shadi karti hain to , i think, each of us starts thinking ki comm. mein acche ladke nahi hai kya ....and baat thode ego pe aa jati hai .... so inspite of killing sisters for marrying outside community ....khud ko itna able banao ki ladkiyaan comm. mein hi shadi kare ...
aur ye baat to kehne ki hai hi nahi ki koi comm. mein shadi kyu nahi kare ....jiski marzi hai wo wahan shadi kare ..waise bhi >95% log to i think humari comm. ke apni comm. mein hi shadi karte hai ..kafi hai ..comm ke tradition preserve karne ke liye
Hitesh Gurjar
i totally support dr. hitesh kasana(apne bade bhaiya) in this.. everybody will marry where he/she wants...
ReplyDeleteand just like gujar boys can marry in other caste.. gujar girls have a right to do the same as well....
one case-study..
i know a gujar guy who loved a girl of other caste but cudnt marry her bcoz of these so-called "society-samaaj-uthaa baith"...
he married a gujar gal.. and after sometime.. his sister told him ki she loves a guy frm other caste.. the guy was very good in every sense..well educated and settled.. he proposed her marriage to that guy.. the family opposed.. so he asked the family memers to find a guy for her ..who is better than this guy in 2 months.. they searched everywhr n cudnt find one...
so ultimately, he got her sister married to the guy she loved and now they are very happy...
one more thing..
now, his mother tells him(after 10-15 years of his marriage) that it had been better if he had also married the gal he loved.. the same mother who opposed him and for whose sake he had to leave his love.....
so i conclude ki..
sab ho jata hai.. jo jise karna hai kare.. jo pasand aaye.. soch samajh ke.. zindagi jaise jeeni hai jiye.. kuchh time me sab bhool jaate hn samaaj etc..
aaj saleem ko yaad kia jata hai,... anarkali ko yaad kia jata hai.. jabki AKBAR-THE GREAT ko itna nahi...
Amit Baisla
The point is jin logon ka society me jada uthna bethna nahi hain wo ker sakte hain wo ker len. but jinka hain or jinko pharak padta hain wo na karen... that's it. as simple as it can be....
ReplyDeleteOr rahi bat Mr Amit g ager aap ko inter cast karni hain or aap ki family allow karti han to ker lo g. best of luck g.
Hitesh singh
hiteash ji change ur mind first...ap orthodox dikhe rhe ho is timemujhe[sry agar apko bura laga ho to].....samaj to bhot kuch khta h bolta h kya ap her baat manoge..???\
ReplyDelete.kuch bade log to abhi tk ye bolte h ki kyu ladiko pe rupiye waste kr rhe ho ye paraya dhan h ....so ap is baat ko manlogo????? ladkiyo ko ghar ke baher kadam mat rakhne do maan loge????
cast ...samajh hum logo se hi banta h ..na ki bhagwan ne banaya h ...bhawan ne insaan bnaye the dharam nhi ye sab humara bnaya hua h ......time ke sath her chiz badalti h ...nd u hve to change ur veiws abt this topic!! m ye nhi khti ki cast marriage bakvas h m kud isse manti hu .....becoz jis maaholl m hum log pale badhe h vo gujjaro ka culture h nd some how hum sb uske aadi h !!!! aur koi q. h apke dimagh me.....!!!!
fisrt of all my name is 'MANSHA' GOT THAT!!
SECOND THING IM NOT THE RIGHT PERSON TO ASK ABT THIS...
U SHOULD TAKE A COUNSELLING""
BAS EK BAAT BOLUNGI AP YE CHAHATE HO KI KOI GUJJAR LADKI HI HO JO APKE SATH MALL M JAYE..GUMME ....RIGHT???
EK CHIZ SOCHNA BAS KYA AP APNI BHEN KO ALLOW KR SAKTE HO FOR THE SAME..?? JAWAB KUD MILJAEGA..!!!
Mansha chd.
hiteash ji change ur mind first...ap orthodox dikhe rhe ho is timemujhe[sry agar apko bura laga ho to].....samaj to bhot kuch khta h bolta h kya ap her baat manoge..???\
ReplyDelete.kuch bade log to abhi tk ye bolte h ki kyu ladiko pe rupiye waste kr rhe ho ye paraya dhan h ....so ap is baat ko manlogo????? ladkiyo ko ghar ke baher kadam mat rakhne do maan loge????
cast ...samajh hum logo se hi banta h ..na ki bhagwan ne banaya h ...bhawan ne insaan bnaye the dharam nhi ye sab humara bnaya hua h ......time ke sath her chiz badalti h ...nd u hve to change ur veiws abt this topic!! m ye nhi khti ki cast marriage bakvas h m kud isse manti hu .....becoz jis maaholl m hum log pale badhe h vo gujjaro ka culture h nd some how hum sb uske aadi h !!!! aur koi q. h apke dimagh me.....!!!!
fisrt of all my name is 'MANSHA' GOT THAT!!
SECOND THING IM NOT THE RIGHT PERSON TO ASK ABT THIS...
U SHOULD TAKE A COUNSELLING""
BAS EK BAAT BOLUNGI AP YE CHAHATE HO KI KOI GUJJAR LADKI HI HO JO APKE SATH MALL M JAYE..GUMME ....RIGHT???
EK CHIZ SOCHNA BAS KYA AP APNI BHEN KO ALLOW KR SAKTE HO FOR THE SAME..?? JAWAB KUD MILJAEGA..!!!
Mansha chd
hiteash ji change ur mind first...ap orthodox dikhe rhe ho is timemujhe[sry agar apko bura laga ho to].....samaj to bhot kuch khta h bolta h kya ap her baat manoge..???\
ReplyDelete.kuch bade log to abhi tk ye bolte h ki kyu ladiko pe rupiye waste kr rhe ho ye paraya dhan h ....so ap is baat ko manlogo????? ladkiyo ko ghar ke baher kadam mat rakhne do maan loge????
cast ...samajh hum logo se hi banta h ..na ki bhagwan ne banaya h ...bhawan ne insaan bnaye the dharam nhi ye sab humara bnaya hua h ......time ke sath her chiz badalti h ...nd u hve to change ur veiws abt this topic!! m ye nhi khti ki cast marriage bakvas h m kud isse manti hu .....becoz jis maaholl m hum log pale badhe h vo gujjaro ka culture h nd some how hum sb uske aadi h !!!! aur koi q. h apke dimagh me.....!!!!
fisrt of all my name is 'MANSHA' GOT THAT!!
SECOND THING IM NOT THE RIGHT PERSON TO ASK ABT THIS...
U SHOULD TAKE A COUNSELLING""
BAS EK BAAT BOLUNGI AP YE CHAHATE HO KI KOI GUJJAR LADKI HI HO JO APKE SATH MALL M JAYE..GUMME ....RIGHT???
EK CHIZ SOCHNA BAS KYA AP APNI BHEN KO ALLOW KR SAKTE HO FOR THE SAME..?? JAWAB KhUD MILJAEGA..!!!
Mansha chd
hello hitesh bhai
ReplyDeletekafi comment a agaye hai is baray mai
mujhe lagta hai is baat ko samjhana in logo ko BEWKOOFI hai isliye aap har msg ka reply na karay or rahi baaaaaat intercaste marriage ki jo bhi karna chahtay hai wo karay
par sahdi ke baad APNI FAMILY KI CONDITION DEKH KAR SAMAJH AA JAYEGA SABKO
KI INTERCASTE MARRIAGE KYU NAHI KARNI CHAHIYE
Deepak Baisla
@deepak... tum aes kah rhe ho jaise intercaste karne ke baad uski family bhikhari ban jaati hai.. ha ha
ReplyDeleteaur haan ek baat tumhari wali hi kahunga main bhi mansha ke liye.. ki mansha behen.. in logo ko ye baat samjhane ka koi faayda nahi hai.. ye log us level pe soch hi nahi sakte.. ye wo log hain jo ladies ko apni tarh se chalaana chahte hain.. jo kisine kahin bhi likh-bol dia wahi theek hai inke liye.. apna dimaag lagaane ki jarurat nahi hai... just like a line is written in shastras... "DHOL GANWAR SHUDRA PASHU NAARI.. YE SAB TAADAN KE ADHIKARI.. " bas ise sahi maanke ladies ko pashu ki tarah rakho...
bt inhe ye nahi pata ki SHRI KRISHNA ne khud apni behen subhadra ko arjun ke sath bhaga dia tha..because they liked each other.. and thr was no other way to get them married... and he explained it to his brother Balram when he opposed.. "putri koi pashu nahi hai jo puraskar banake kisi ko de dia jaaye.. wo koi wastu nahi hai jo haari ya jeeti ja sake.. "
see it yourself here..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ufGYTrmb3Gc
Amit Baisla
ha ha ha ha lagta hai amit bhai abtumharya paas reply ke liye kuhc raha nahi isliye tum aisi baat kar rahe ho
ReplyDeleteor baat rahi hamray leval ki bhai leval to BANDA KHUD BANATA HAI APNA BAS DIKKAT YEH HOTI HAI
KI US LEVAL KO MENTAIN KAISE RAKHA JAYE society ke beech mai
or banda koi bhikari nahi ban jata bas bhikari wo samaaj ke samnay ban jata hai
lagata hai aap samaaj mai nahi bethtay isliye aap aisi baat kar rahe hooooooooooooo
Deepak Baisla
how do u define ur samaaj??????????????????????????????????????
ReplyDeleteAmit Baisla
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ReplyDeleteor han Mr Amit ye level ki kya baat ker raha hain... What is your Level.. Hun tell me ya tell me... NOIDA me rehta hain na JSS B.tech ker raha hain ya kya.. ???? ..
ReplyDeleteJara hume bhi batao bhai ye Bade Adme Kayn hain ... Hum bhi in bade logo se milna chahenge.
tumhe to me shayad jaror janta hunga.. bus recognise nahi ker paa raha.. jara hum bhi mel milap kare in bade bhaiaon se.. achhi baat hain bhai apne biradri me BADE BADE log age aa rahe hain.... cool...
Hitesh Singh
actly hum gujrs mein grls n boyz ke liye rules n regulations alag alag hai.......or u r right mr. hitesh baat baat mein hamara ego aa jata hai.....ku jab tum boys esa karo toh kuch nahi ham grls kare toh honour killing jaisi cheeze......meine kitne gjr boys ko dekha hai shaadi ke baad bhi kahi or relations rakhte hue....un logo ko kuch nahi kahta...grls kare toh izzat ki baat...pahle grls n unki thinking ko respect dena seekho tab ye saari baatee karna......jo boys grls ki feelings ki respect nahi karte woo unhe kisi bhi baat ke liye kuch bolne ka haq nahi rakhte.....
ReplyDeleteRoli Mavi
U r absolutely right Roli g.. humare samaj se pehle humara DHARM hume sikhata hain ki hume female ki respect karni chaie.. wo to ek ma hoti hain .. shakti hoti hain poognie hoti hain.. Very very respectable human being... Alwaws give respect to her...
ReplyDeleteHitesh Singh
samaj ke naam par sirf shaadi ka hi issue ku raise karte ho aap log or bhi kai topics hai discussion ke liye....agar ye dictatorship chodker ham log baki cheezo par dhayan de toh shayad reservation jaise issues raise hi na ho......
ReplyDeleteRoli Mavi
c grls non- gujar se tab marriage karti hai jab woo unhe lyk karti hai or jab aap kisi ko luv kate ho toh uski caste nahi dekhte....
ReplyDeletemr. deepak aap issliye iske against ho bcz apke parents n society iske against hai.....apke apne koi views nahi hai.....or jab apka apna koi view hai hi nahi toh aap ye sab batee rahne hi do......or han imp thing aap ke views se lagta hai ki topic apne galat type kar diya .....apko yaha type karna chahiye tha ...hamme apne parents ko hurt karna chahiye ya nahi...ya phir...hamme society ke against jana chahiye ya nahi
Roli mavi
wo to baat aap ki bilkul sahi hain ki LOVE me kuch nahi dekha jata.. LOVE IS BLIND. but mujhe bhi pata hain ki jab kuch samagh nahi aata.. LOVE IS LOVE..
ReplyDeleteBut again if ur parents r not agery then???
Bakion ka mujhe pata nahi but me apne jete ji apne parents ke aankho me aansu nahi dekh sakta.. Baki sab ki apni apni margi hain g...
Every one is free in this nation
Hitesh Singh
@hitesh..
ReplyDeleteye level wali baat is baat ka jawab tha mr. deepak ki... "mujhe lagta hai is baat ko samjhana in logo ko BEWKOOFI hai" which he said to you... ok!!!
aur mera level kya hai ye chhodo ..meri profile padhke sirf jss btech etc pata chal gya.. lekin kuchh logo ka level to is forum ke topic se pata chal gya.. i need nt visit somebody's profile for that..
topic intercaste hota to theek tha.. but it is.. "Why Gujjar Girls Marriage in other Caste" huh!!!
Amit Baisla
yaar amit tu baat to pate ki kerta hai topic ye hota ki ladke kyu kerte hai to maja aata na mai bhi bahut kuch likh leta, ab yaar yaha to sab lene pe tule hai kya fayda as hr insaan bas degree lene se ya padh likh lene se hi nahi samajdaar ho jata tu jss se btech hai n mai mtech hoo kahi se bhi iska ye to matlab nahi ab tu jo kahega wo sab bakwaas hai bcoz mai mtech hooo ...
ReplyDeleteSuresh Gurjar
jo maza apni biradri me hai wo or kahan.. sirf gujjars hi nhi sabhi ye sochte hai ki hum ane logo me rahe khaas kar shaadi waadi k case me... ab yaar punjabiyon me shaadi karwa k na hum gujjari bhasha bol sake hai na ghar k bade Huka pee sake hai...
ReplyDeleteOr phir jiski jahan ho jaye wahin badiya...
Jai chokkar(http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?uid=5892565843546686943)
@ jai....
ReplyDeleteu r right sab log yahi sochte hai ki apni society mein hi shaadi kare but agar koi or pasand aa jaye...tab kisi ko force karna galat...lyf hamari hai.....or hamse btr koi nahi janta ki hamme keisa lyf partner chahiye....
Roli Mavi
@Roli. sabhi ki apni alag soch hai Roli.. mujhe aisa lagata hai ki 18-20 saal tak or till d time u dont fall in love , aap jinka chehra dekh kar sote ho or aankhe kholte hi wohi chehre dekhte ho, wo insaan jyada matter karta hai, uss ladki ya ladke se jisse aap last 10 mnths or 1 year se jaante ho.....
ReplyDeleteor rahi baat future ki, its unpredictable. infact baat sahi galat or khusi ki hai.. agar sab khus hai to tum automaticlly khush ho jaoge. or ho sakta hai jisse tumhare maa-baap ne chuna ho wo tumhari expectations se beyond nikle..
Go ahead n choose ur life partner but apni khusiyaan unke sath share karo jinhone tumhe abhi tak khush rakha hai..
Jai Chokkar
ye aplog mujhe ya btao ki ladkioo ke piche kyu padee ho ????ladke nhi h kya intrcaste marige krne wale.....????
ReplyDeletevse hi bhagwan dharti pr kam ladkiya bhej rha h uper se adhi paida hote hi maar di jati h .....yha nhi marii aur bhagwan ki dua se badi ho gai ...nd galti se bhi koi galti hu to Tapkaa di jati h ,......ye bhi marnese bach gai ..aur intrcast marriage kr li to mar di gai ....caste marriage to kitni ladkiooo ko sasural wale maar dete h dheej ke chhkker m .....nd phir bhi bach gai to .....bimario se jalldi bhagwan ko pyari ho jati h ......ya pati ke saqqi hone pr pati hi mar deta h......
nd kitni ladkiya accidents me mar jati h ya mar di jati h
ye ladkoi ko marna hi h to phir devi kyu bolte h log...???
aj bhi agar ladka paida hoti h to sagun nd ladki to apshagun...... why ??
SACH M EK JOKE YAAD H RHA H AJ
AS THE RATIO OF GIRL IS DECREASING IN NXT COMING YRSS THE NAME OF MARRIAGE CARDS MIGHT LOOK LIKE THIS.
RAHUL ND ROHIT
WEDS
ROHINI
[PURPLE
Ladkio pr abhi bhi padhai pr khrch kiya paisa wast hota h nd ladkoo pr hhh...
chahe ladke ma-baap ka bad m band hi kyu na baja de im not againsed any particuler individual .......bt its a genral fact
dont u all think so??
plzz give the answer plzzz...
nd ha haa ab ap log apne apne ghar ki safaiiya dena mat shura kr dena ki mre yha nhi hota ya ab ye nhi hota.....ye sab ab bhi ho rha h INDAI m .....nd u all know that...HUM SAB GUJJAR HONE SE PHLE INDIAN H !!!!!! BT PHIR BHI WE PROUD TO BE INDIAN ......
yha sabse choti hu agar kisi ko mre post se thees pohochi ho to im sorryCHOTI SAMJH K MAAF KR DIJEYEGA........bty plz thande dimag se sochkr ek barr mri bat pr goor ZARUR farmaiyega
Mansha chd.
@ jai....i understand tum kya kah rahe ho or mein bhi esa kuch karne nahi wali but...c ...ek hoti hai majburi..joo parents ko khush rakhne ke liye ya kisi or wajah se karte hai n ek hoti hai pasand ...........or mein ye kahna chahti hun ki intrcst marriage mein koi burai nahi hai but woo baat alag hai ki ham apne parents ko hurt nahi karna chahte toh nahi karenge...but iss wajah se intrcst marriage ko galat kahna galat hai...
ReplyDeleteRoli Maavi
It is totally depend on preception..Example ager mene intercast success hoti hui dekhi hain to it is good 4 me..chahe dunia kuch bhi kahe... and if mene galat hote hue dekha hain to it is bad 4 me...
ReplyDeleteSo jo jisne observe kia hain wo usi ko manta hain......
Hitesh Singh
Or hum intercast ko leke itna bawal hi kue macha rahe hain...
Or bohot se issue hain ... Dahej hain child
Hitesh Mavimarrige hain ... and bohot sari cheeg but un pe ye SO CALLED KHAP PANCHAYAT kye nahi bolti??? WHY???
marriage chahe boy or girl ne caste se bahar ki ho ya nahi.....bas gharwalo ka dil nahi dukhna chaiye.bcz hum ek pyar karne wale ki khatir itne salo k pyar chod rahe he.baki koi problem nhi he.wese mei to caste me hi love or marriage prefer karunga bcz ek to isse sabhi khush rahte he aur dusra hamari wajah se hamare gharwalo k sharminda bhi nahi hona padta.bcz abhi hamari community itni modern hui nhi he aur aage bhi chance kam hi he................and last APNI GURJAR GIRLS ITNI BHI BURI NAHI HE YAARO..BAS EK BAAR DIL LAGA K TO DEKHO YE SABHI OTHER COMMUNITY KI GIRLS SE BAHUT BETTER HOGI.
ReplyDeleteRaj Gujjar
Why i will not do intercast......
ReplyDeleteGurger girls has following qualities..
* They are intelligent
* Educated
* Has Beauty, both external and internal(mind/ heart)
* Has more values as compair to other cast
* more loyal
* More brave..
.......ETC....etc...etc etc... List is long...
Are bhai jab itni sari qualities hain to me baher ki cast me kue jaaun.. samajh nahi ata...
han pyar mahabat iskh ki baat orhain because Love is BLIND..
wese bhi I dont like this love shove.. because I Hate Love Stories...
are ye pyar shyar thode din ka hota hain phir wohi sab esa hi ho jata hain... pyar kerna hain to bivi ko karo wo bhi hamesha ke lie jo kabhi khatam na ho... warna karo hi mat..
wese sahi mayne me to pyar khuda ko karna chaie.. jisne hume jindgi di... Books ko karna chaie jo hume knowledge deti hai...
Ladkia to sirph dhoka hi deti hain.....dhoka.. han sari ek saman nahi hoti.
Hitesh Singh
Bhai Hitesh & Deepak i am totally agree with u ke aaj ki gurjar generatio kaafi advance ho gayi ha unhe ache Bure se kuch lena dena nahi han unhe sirf pasand chahiye Baaki jaye duniya dari Bhad mein...
ReplyDeleteIf a boy or a girl do indulge in intercast marriage thn they shud no longer remain the pure Gurjar & then they dont have right to prefix or suffix Gurjar with their name..
People who are against my views are morever under the influence of over education & over advancement they dont know what the value of a pride for a respectful man in a society ,so plz think over this before commenting against my views
On this changing environment i remmebering a Manoj Kumar film 's Yaadgar dialogue- "WAH RE KALYUG KIYA KEHNE TERE”
Dost Amit ji IIT wale, aapke baato se lagta han ke maa baap ko apni aulad ko fully azadi de deni chahiye chahe wo kuch bhi kare ( taaki humare samaj ki ladkiya khule aam parko mein or malls mein apne boyfriends ke sath openly ghume) or baad mein ghar se bhagkar intercast shadi karke unki Ijjat ka banta dhar karde but bro hum Gujjar han not Punjabi so apki yeh thinking Gujjar samaj per applicable nahi han….
Amit ji, Hamara jeevan ek resham ki dor se bandha hua han jisme Maa or Baap do ganthe han or aulade mala mein peroye hue moti han,,, agar moti mala ke andar hi rahe to theek rahega nahi to khule hue moti ki kimat bazaar mein kuch bhi nahi han…………
Ravi Kasana
baiya faltu ki netagiri bas jhaadne se gurjars ka to bhala hona nahi hai, to ek kaam kerte hai jitna kachra hai na sab saaf ker dete hai gurjars me se pehle sachin pilot se suru kerte hai sahi na usne bhi to inter caste saadi ki hai na.
ReplyDeleteper ek cheej hai jab gaav ke kisi ladke ka koi job problem ho ya koi or type ka problem ho uske pass mat jaana sala intercaste jo ki hai na. aise log to kabhi gurjars ka bhala hi nahi ker sakte na, ijaat badha hi nahi sakte na , ijaat to wo badhayenge jihone bas gurjar me saadi ker li bhale hi saadi se pehle kitni hi gurjar ladkiyo ki jindgi bigad chuka ho.
bhaiya first of all to meri baat ka bura mat maana ye bas isliye bol raha hoo ki aap bhi gurjar ho, of fir bhi maano to maano sach yahi hai ye sab rehne do or apne poor bhai logo ko help ker sako to wo ker do pehle or aapki side me sab raheesh ho to kabhi rajasthan me aake dekhna fir pata chalega basic needs kya hoti hai saadi to wo sab bhi ker le gurjar ladki se khane ko koi de de bas unko.
or bhai rahi saadi ki baat to jaroori nahi ki aapki saadi jis gurjar ladki se ho wo aapke parent ko kush rakhegi, kerni saadi gurjar se hi bhale hi roj aapke parent ko gaali de wo tab to unka naam bahut badh jaayega na.
mere bhai waise to mai in sab controversy me padna nahi chataa but jab bhi aaplog aisi philosophy jhaad dete ho to lagta hai ki aap logo ne kabhi dekha hi nahi gurjars kaha hai kis halat me hai. aadhe log jo yaha hai bas apne ko bada ya raheesh prove kerne me laga rehta hai. aap log isme honour samjhte ho ki jisko aapne 18-20 saal pal poss ke bada kiya us ladki ya ladke ki kushi ko side me ker ke bas apne honour,pride,or jo bhi hai sabka matlab to ek hi hai na, maar do.
Suresh Gurjar
Suresh ji mein apko clear karne ki koshish karta hoon ke aap Sachin Pilot Ki baat kar rahe han ,,....Sachin ne hi nahi Balki uski Bhen ne bhi chrischano mein Intercast marraige ki han .....Bhai Jab Ghar Mein sab sab ke sab ek jase ho to bhai sudharega kon....Han Agar Rajesh Pilot Ji hote to Baat Kuch or hoti ..tab shayad sachin ki itni himmat na hoti per apki jaankari ke liye humare Gurjar Samaaj mein Sachin Ko ghrina se dekhte han wo Pratishtha nahi han unki jo honi chahiye thi being a son of Rajesh Pilot coz usne apni Biradari ki mariyadao ka ulanghan kiya han by doing so....yahi karan han ke Vaidpura unka gaon khud sachin ki aalochna karta han....
ReplyDeleteYeh Intercast wale hi han jinke saal me 10 baar divorce or 10 baar shadi hoti han... humari cast mein divorce ke case 1% bhi nahi han thats show ke same cast ki mariage is longlasting rather to intercast marriage
mere chote Bhai intercast marriage humare samaaj per applicable nahin ..han agar kisi ko apne samaaj ka namo nishan iss dharti se khatam karna han to such ppl are welcome they can do intercast......but my dear friends Agar humari cast ki modern generation apne cast ki royality ke baare mein jaane ke why we r royal only then wo apni cast mein shadi ki importance samjhenge......
Bhai Rahi rajasthan ki baat to hum bhali bhaati wahan ke haalat se parichit han...ke wahan humare bhaiyo ki halat kase han...humare yahan ke Gurjaro mein unke liye bhi puri sahanubhuti isiliye reservation ke aligation ke doraan humare yahan ki kae mashur hastiyo ne apne aadmi or Paise rajasthan mein bheje the....Yahan ke 70% gujjaro ka nikash bhi rajasthan hi han even me .......or Bhai Rahi Honour or Pride ki Baat to Humare liye humara samman hi sabkuch han .....tabhi mene kahan han han Pride is more than a Life for Gurjars
Ravi Kasana
ab sabka sochna to ek jaisa nahi ho sakta na bhai aisa hota to hum aaj bhi satyug me jee rahe hote so itz better aap ko jo achaa lage aap karo hame jo lage hum kare but mujhe intercast me koi burai nahi dikhti baaki jiski jo ichaa kare koun rok sakta hai
ReplyDeleteSuresh Gurjar
My vote too goes against Inter-caste system guys...,
ReplyDeleteI am also agree with you Ravi...
But Suresh too is right because it is very difficult to make another agree with you...
hum jitna marzi lecture de lein, jitne bhi sahi kyun na hon....
but to convince others about that truth is too very difficult......
Thus agar kisi ko suggestions acchhe lagen toa theek hai, maan lo nahi toa bhaiyon yahan kaun kisko sudhaarne aur samjhane ya check karne ke liye kisi ke paas jane wala hai...
Partihara Inborn
jamana badal gaya hai bhai bachche jaise maahol me palenge aur badhenge unpar uska asar to padega hi.Ab gurjar family cities me bhi rehti hai to vaha ke culture me ghul mil kar hi rehna padta hai isliye bachche bhi vaise hi khyalo k hote ja rahe hai.Par ye bade hi sharm ki baat k hamare bachche other casts me bina soche samje marriage kar lete hai.Shayad hamari nai pidhi me sanskaro ki kami hoti ja rahi hai..............Save our community
ReplyDeleteDaksh Choudhary
mr.ravi
ReplyDeleteaapne shayad meri baat ko thik se nahi padha.......
mein intercast marriage ki favouring ki baate nahi kar raha hun sabhi jaante hein y samaj k liye galat h but kisi k sath aap koi jabardasti nahi kar sakte sabhi ko apni zindagi k feisle lene ka pura haq h aur koi ek insaan is samaj ko nahi mita sakta mere bhai samaj sab logo k milne se banta h .................
aapki g k achchi h jaankar bohut achcha lga ki aap gurjar gatividhiyon p dhyan dete ho lekin sirf dhyan mat do inke member bankar kuch achcha karo sirf badi badi baaton s kuch nahi hone wala all the best............
Bhupinder Nagar
Sorry bhupender bhai interfare ke liye but aap se ek question karta hu ki jaise ladkiya or ladkay intercaste marriage kar rahay hai to kyaa aap bhi is baat ka support kartay hai kyaaaaaaaa ????????????????//
ReplyDeleteDeepak Baisla
deepak
ReplyDeletebhai pahle mere post ko fir se padho aapki shankaye hat jayengi.....
mein inter cast mariage ko bilkul support nahi kar rha hun mere bhai mein iske dusparbhavo se wakif hun m manta hun y humare samaj k liye achcha nahi h ye feisle uske sath uski aane wali pidhi k liye bhi kahin na kahin matter karega.....
par hum log y samjhne ki koshish bhi karen ki har insan apne hisab se apni life k sahi feisle leta h agar wo apne feisle se khus h to hume koi haq nahi usko galat batane ka wo chori ya daaka daal k humare samaj ka naam to kharab nahi kar raha h .....
i wish aap meri baaton p thoda dhyyan denge....
Bhupinder Naagar